Topic: Is it OK to do this with a 13 year old girl?
June 16, 2019 / By Amber Question:
I went to pick up my girlfriend Betty for our date and she was not ready so I talked to her 13 year old sister Amy. Amy told me she was having trouble with her math homework and ask me to help her until her sister was ready. I agreed to do that. I did this for several weeks and Amy raised her grade to A. I also became good friends with Amy. She was happy and so was her mother with the improvement in her grades.
Betty decided she wanted to date someone else which was fine with me. However Amy wanted me to continue to help her with her math homework which was also fine with me. I like to help people when I can. I don’t know Betty’s new boyfriend so I have no way of knowing if he would have a problem with me being at their house helping her sister.
However Betty did not want me there when her new boyfriend was there. I told Betty, Amy, and their mother they needed to work this out as I did not want to cause any problems with anybody. Amy’s solution was for me to help her with her homework in her room with the door closed so Betty’s boyfriend would not know I was there. I had previously helped Amy in her kitchen. Her mom was OK with this as she said she trusted me completely.
I am not sure I am comfortable doing that. For the record I HAVE NO ROMANTIC INTEREST IN ANY 13 year old girl. I am 18.
Please give me some advice on what I should do so I don’t cause ANYONE a problem.
Wally | 10 days ago
If you're just helping her with her homework and have no romantic interest then I think everything should be fine if the mom is ok with it.
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Could you tutor her at a library or outside in the backyard? Your ex needs to get over it and let you help her younger sister.
I have to be honest with you, if you were my son i would strongly advise against it, i know what you are saying there is nothing there, what is there is in 6 months, or for her ?
Think, think think.