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Is it OK to do this with a 13 year old girl?

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June 16, 2019 / By Amber
Question: I went to pick up my girlfriend Betty for our date and she was not ready so I talked to her 13 year old sister Amy. Amy told me she was having trouble with her math homework and ask me to help her until her sister was ready. I agreed to do that. I did this for several weeks and Amy raised her grade to A. I also became good friends with Amy. She was happy and so was her mother with the improvement in her grades. Betty decided she wanted to date someone else which was fine with me. However Amy wanted me to continue to help her with her math homework which was also fine with me. I like to help people when I can. I don’t know Betty’s new boyfriend so I have no way of knowing if he would have a problem with me being at their house helping her sister. However Betty did not want me there when her new boyfriend was there. I told Betty, Amy, and their mother they needed to work this out as I did not want to cause any problems with anybody. Amy’s solution was for me to help her with her homework in her room with the door closed so Betty’s boyfriend would not know I was there. I had previously helped Amy in her kitchen. Her mom was OK with this as she said she trusted me completely. I am not sure I am comfortable doing that. For the record I HAVE NO ROMANTIC INTEREST IN ANY 13 year old girl. I am 18. Please give me some advice on what I should do so I don’t cause ANYONE a problem.
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Wally Wally | 10 days ago
If you're just helping her with her homework and have no romantic interest then I think everything should be fine if the mom is ok with it. Check out my blog! https://jenniferr5d.wordpress.com/
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Wally Originally Answered: Im a 29 year old lonely guy battlin mental probs, my dream isto get a girl, but not just any girl?
That could be your problem right there. "F*** it"??? Life isn't all or nothing. That is a bad attitude to have. And a girl isn't going to solve your problems...or where you live. Those things do not make you happy. You are the only one who can do that. People try that all the time--and it never works. Quit "battlin" your mental problems and get some help.
Wally Originally Answered: Im a 29 year old lonely guy battlin mental probs, my dream isto get a girl, but not just any girl?
Well you got to be a little less demanding because not every thing works out the way we want to. If it did then life would be perfect and life is never perfect. I would consider first working on the mental health issues first because those will only interfere with a relationship and will probably fail because of them. You need to be healthy in every way before you think you can be ready to take on a steady relationship. I don't mean any kind of offense but who would want a boyfriend who has serious problems? It doesn't work that way. Work on yourself first. As for your dreams, you are in control of your destiny. The choices you make are entirely up to you. If you want that life then make the right choices to get you there. You have the rest of your life, don't give up. If you believe in yourself then that is all that matters. Hope this is helps and I hope you make it there!

Rudy Rudy
Could you tutor her at a library or outside in the backyard? Your ex needs to get over it and let you help her younger sister.
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Morton Morton
I have to be honest with you, if you were my son i would strongly advise against it, i know what you are saying there is nothing there, what is there is in 6 months, or for her ? Think, think think.
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Morton Originally Answered: Is This Too Much Homework? 16 year old girl, Sophmore Year!?
No, it'll prep you for college. I'm a college freshman and this is what my homework looks like for a week: -Read about 300 pages -Practice piano for 5 hours for my minor -Do a 6 page lab -Write 2 papers -Do 6 hours of reading and writing up essay questions I wouldn't be complaining, that is so much easier than what I have to do everyday. It will prepare you for life after high school, I wish my high school was like that.

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