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Destiny or Natural Drive?

Destiny or Natural Drive? Topic: Destiny or Natural Drive?
June 20, 2019 / By Asenath
Question: My name's Ryan and I'm 17 years old, lately I've completely changed as a person and not in a bad way either. I used to be a kid who found a lot of joy in playing Call of Duty and going out on the weekends, but now I find myself trying to better myself constantly whether it be just developing a successful mindset or trying to learn computer programming languages and investing in stocks. Almost as if I'm obsessed with being successful in life. I truly want to amount to something one day, and I believe I could become a billionaire with the amount of discipline I currently have in my life. I'm consistently working out and reading books such as "Think and Grow Rich" "Rich Dad Poor Dad" and the "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" In middle school, I was a straight A student but mainly because my mom expressed how important middle school was for college (just encouraging me) when in reality that was the biggest bs I've ever heard, but in High School my grades were just average being somewhere around a 3.0-3.2. My plan is to go to a community college for 2 years and bust my *** to get a 4.0 to transfer into an amazing school not only because my HS grades are average but because tuition nowadays is so high! I'm interested in a business, like investing and such, as well as computer science. I was never good at math but with all the reading I've been doing lately I'm actually pushing myself to potentially teach myself math because I never paid attention to it in school. I just find it crazy in the person I am becoming; it's more drive than I've ever seen and every parent teacher conference I had when I was a kid in elementary school they would always tell my parents I had a lot of "potential" and I guess they saw something I never saw in myself. I'm motivated, I'm outgoing and I feel like with the mindset I have right now there's no telling who I can become? My question to all of you is, what do you think about this? and What has caused this motivation?
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Zelophehad Zelophehad | 8 days ago
I'm only 18 myself and will not be able to give hard-earned, well-practiced words of wisdom these people have. However, I think what you are discovering within yourself is great. But, much like hockey; you may be a fantastic player, but the guy who makes it to the national league is the one who sticks with it. We are so impulsive. And yet, we are always thinking ahead of ourselves. My best friend is 83-years-old. He told me that he always lives in the moment, and that everyday is beautiful no matter what happens. I wish we could all live like that. You already are someone. You already accomplish wonderful things. "We are always getting ready to live but never living." ― Ralph Waldo Emerson Take care.
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Zelophehad Originally Answered: Are there natural ways to increase my partners sex drive?
As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, now retired, and as one whose Practicum Report (thesis substitute based on actual clinical practice) was entitled "Male Sexuality" wherein I had to study both gender's sexuality in detail, let me recommend something to you that was first stated by women back in the 1970's (if not earlier) when they complained about premature ejaculation and about their partners not giving them any orgasms, or not enough of them, and on and on and on: Pay very close attention to your partner's "sex drive" or sexual arousal, etc.. Don't ask him anything about it, or demand any sexual "favors". Just study him, quietly and "from a distance" as the phrase goes. Don't tell him you're doing it and don't tell him you've asked anybody about his sex drive or how to deal with your sexual frustrations. Just study his sexual interests. There is a pattern. You just don't see it. Right now he may feel so much pressure from your sexual demands and other stressors in his life, and any alcohol or drug problems he may have,that he's not showing anything, so back off. Deal with your sexual needs in any other safe way you want, but do NOT pressure him or even relate to him that way. Over time, you're going to see patterns of sexual interest that you haven't seen in a long while. Do NOT try to take advantage of any of his sexually excited moments, even though they seem like an easy take. Just observe, and do so in such a discreet manner that he will never know you ever were paying attention to him. Enjoy your own sexuality without "demanding" that he participate or respond in any way. If you are at your "sexual peak" as you say, then your sexuality, not pressured upon him, may, if he's in good mental and physical health, arouse him to the point that he begins making sexual "advances" to you, and rather persistent "advances". THEN enjoy them, and build upon the knowledge you've gained about his sexuality to slowly but steadily begin filling your sexual wants through him, if you still want them with him by then. He is living his sexuality on his own right now. You do the same. If you and he want a sexual relationship as time goes on, believe me, if you do the studying and sensitive reintroduction of sex between the two of you, you'll truly enjoy yourself. And, by then, you will have explored new ways to enjoy your own sexuality, oftentimes which won't include him, that your "sexual peak" won't put too much pressure or demand on him. Trust me. My professors, male and female, loved my Practicum Report, especially since it was done in a time of so much one-sided (female) sexual demands and sensitivities. And the irony here is that much of my study direction was based on women's complaints about their sexual partners not satisfying them enough. I simply used their complaints as a basis to begin my research for my clinical study, and added on as I went along. God Bless you.

Skuyler Skuyler
Firstly, I think it's great to be a highly motivated, well driven person. Those who know what they want and are willing to work really hard for it usually are quite successful. As for wanting to "better yourself" well now I think that is natural human instinct and a great thing to do for yourself, your family and those you love and hold dear. Everybody wants to do better for themselves and if they don't, it's probably because they've already done better for themselves. My advice would be this: don't get ahead of yourself - go one step at a time. You've got a goal? Great! But don't lose sight of the intermediate steps between your position now and that goal in future. Some people get so focused on what they want that they forget what they have and what they need along the way. Secondly: be prepared to make allowances or changes to your goal. If you are rigid in your approach, you may be caught out if any sudden changes occur. Lastly: though focused on your goal, do not forget to live and love. Some people get so hell-bent on achieving their goals that they alienate those around them and become so consumed, they end up having no life. Best of luck with it, Ryan! I really do hope you get what you want! (And if you have any stock tips, let me know! LOL)
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Ora Ora
Ryan: Could you please break this big 'block' of type up too make it more 'readable' and re-post it? Like,let's say, in Paragraphs! I look at it and it gives me a headache. If you are going too succeed; you will have too learn how too communicate a little more 'clear'. What 'caused' this motivation; You did.
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Lee Lee
Dont rush, enjoy the journey. Enjoy every success, learn from every failure. Learn how to be wise. Dont exclude alternative possibilities too quickly.
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Lee Originally Answered: Is it natural to lose my sex drive while breast feeding?
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido. One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn't the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don't cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it's the female version of viagra. I had to find out. I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don't get multiple orgasms but I've had plenty since being on these herbs. It's seriously like the best vibrator ride you've ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don't even take them because the urge is just too strong. Don't try out single herbs because they don't do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I've tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I'm on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don't work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won't have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn't want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on. Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.

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