I cant handel my wife. She is almost daily involves in arguments with me.?
Topic: I cant handel my wife. She is almost daily involves in arguments with me.?
June 16, 2019 / By Autumn Question:
I am married for a year. I cant handle my wife. She is almost daily involves in arguments with me. She always wants me to do something for her. She wants me to take her to some places even if I don't have enough budget. She wants me to listen to her always. She is a housewife and stays in home. I can't expect her to spend on me but at least she should not pressurize me to do things during not-so-good financial period.
She says I am not making her enjoy. She wants to enjoy always. How can I enjoy her without involving money? Can you give me some tips? The country where we live is not free for women. Women can go around freely. It's a conservative society. She just sits in home and feeling very frustrated.
Best Answers: I cant handel my wife. She is almost daily involves in arguments with me.?
Abbygale | 6 days ago
Well, Oceanside2 almost had it. It is partially just being married. I would have said, however, Welcome to the wonderful world of "You've got a dependent."
I'd suggest you review the monthly budget with her. See where you can cut back and see where you may want to include some form of entertainment for the two of you. Can you budget in a day out on the weekend? Picnics are reasonable, maybe see a movie and walk the boardwalk. Just so she's not in the house that day.
Maybe you can budget in an allowance for her so she has a little bit of discretionary income. At least it would be a definite number in the budget.
If she doesn't have anyone to talk to except you, then, sure, you're going to have your ear talked off. Can you take her over to visit her mom while you're a work one or two days a week? Her isolation is going to be the death of you, lol.
Can her friends come visit her at home? She may want to have folks over for tea, or whatever the tradition is, once a week or so.
You two have to talk it over. You are grown ups and you have the ability to problem-solve. Try not to blame. Just address the issue and, like the intelligent human beings you are, figure it out.
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Originally Answered: Adoptive parents and Adoptees how did/ do you handel theses questions and comments about adoption?
If you don't answer with the truth straight up - not full details - and it depends on the person you're talking to - but the adoptee will think that their adoption is not something that they're allowed to talk about.
Adoptee's pick up on everything.
Get strong about this. Work out together how you will handle questions - but please do not tell things that will make the adoptee feel that his life is a lie.
Work out a story that is firm, is real, is just enough info for you to be comfortable with - and above all - say how lucky you both are (the parents) to now have this child in your life.
ETA- just to add - people are always wanting to make adoption 'more normal' - less uncomfortable.
By dodging around questions - and not telling the whole truth - you are actually perpetuating the ideal that adoption is NOT normal.
Stick with the truth.
Money problems are the worst. One reason I married my wife is that she is very GOOD with money.
You need to give your wife a budget and tell her if she cannot be happy with that amount then you need to divorce immediately.
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It sounds like money is her number one priority. Maybe some counseling will help both of you. I hope things get back to normal. I wish you both the best.
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1: Welcome to the married life
2: She must be spoiled already
3: If she can't make other than financially selfish requests, the kick her to the curb. Wait until she gets her name on your credit card. Down the tubes buddy!
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according to recent research, women respond best to violence. I'd suggest slapping her around a little bit and I guarantee that she won't argue with you anymore about anything. it worked for me!
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Originally Answered: What are your daily routines/ daily schedule?
Got to school
come back from school
do some house work
got to sleep
Wake up real dam early
clean backyard if need cleaning
hang with friends