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I told my grandma I wanted to have a career in music?

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June 26, 2019 / By Candida
Question: So when I told her she just laughed. Is it bad to have a music career? Im only 13 but im just thinking. I feel really bad now though because It could be a bad job or whatever and I might change my mind. Whats your opinion? I told my mom and she didn't like the idea either :( Is having a music career a bad job?
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Amber Amber | 9 days ago
It is very difficult to earn a living as a musician. Most musicians, even those who find steady work, spend their days worrying about how they're going to pay the rent. That doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it, but have a backup plan. Learn about music production or music business management. Those are still risky jobs but it gives you more options to make money making music. The other thing I can tell you is that music as not as much fun when you are trying to make money with it. It becomes a job and you end up playing with people who's music you don't like just because it pays a few dollars. You end up doing things because you have to not because you want to. Also, musicians are often unreliable and many of them are drug addicts. If you make a living in music you will be constantly putting up with people like this. It is much more fun, in my experience, to have a steady job and make music on the side on your terms.
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Amber Originally Answered: If I told you I wanted to end it all today, what would you say?
You don't need to end your life, you need to solve your problems. This could mean working through the problems but it could also mean learning how to let them go. The big wheel keeps turning; sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down. The change is called life and it helps us to tell the difference. I assume that as you mention today as being a good day, it is about love. Well, your idea to kill yourself today would be unbelievably selfish, but you are only saying it because you are feeling sorry for youself. Get things fixed or get over it, because once you're gone, you're gone. It doesn't help to indulge in morbid daydreams about how everybody loves you when you're dead. People love you now, they can't if you are dead. Why die when you can do whatever it takes to fix things ? Death is not a useful goal in life, but solutions are. Every day IS a fight, make no mistake about that, but it is a fight that is always worth fighting because the alternative is nothing. You need to stop chewing over the same old pain time and again because it doesn't help. Mix it up and try to find what does help. You need to phone a friend, meet up, drink lots of tea and talk about what's happening.Simply saying (or crying) it out loud makes a huge difference; it takes it out of your head and helps put things in perspective. You need a friend in person for this, not in cyberspace.
Amber Originally Answered: If I told you I wanted to end it all today, what would you say?
It's a little selfish to do this when you have a daughter that still needs a mother growing up. This decision will affect her for the rest of her life. You probably need medication and counselling and can then lead a more normal life. You need someone to talk to, not just emailing. I wonder if you had parents to raise you or a family structure and what that would mean to your little girl. I don't even want to know what kind of relationship you have with her father. God decides the day, not you.

Wally Wally
A career in music is a risky career. If you're good at it and get spotted, then you get paid a lot. If you don't, then you won't anything (how are you going to pay for stuff?). Anyway, since you're 13 now, just try to pursue it and post some videos on youtube. If you're any good, you might get spotted!
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Rudy Rudy
First,talk to your aunt. Is it best to move and all.. Then,talk to your grandma. If she ask why,just inform her,"we did not suit (or whatever like that) i can't maintain going like this,it wasn't you. It's me" the item is,just be open. Inform your aunt the whole lot. And so does your grandmother (if you happen to have got to)
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Rudy Originally Answered: Why did my wife start sobbing when i told her i wanted a divorce?
I hear you saying.... I cannot do this anymore....but do you mean marriage or "life". You are in alot of emotional pain and fear and I suspect a severe depression and anxiety, perhaps panic. It sounds to me that you have an "exit plan" and want to spare her that. Please speak to your doctor. Your meds may not be working properly!! Take care of yourself.

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