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Does she seem interested in me and how can i get her to become my girlfriend?

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June 16, 2019 / By Deloris
Question: Sorry a bit long but please bear with me. Hey there. I met this girl a my high school's free-for-all drama club months ago but I never had the courage to go up and talk to her. Well, last week I finally found her facebook account and added her as a friend (which she accepted). I really wanted to talk to her and introduce myself in person but I just can't bring myself to do it. I was about to do so today but then I chickened out at the end because she was walking and talking with a friend of hers (I was walking in front of her and her friend) and just suddenly saying hi and talking to her there would just create a awkward situation. Anyway, I talked to her on MSN last night, and we talked about many things (random fun chat) and I gave her approx. 3 compliments (nice hair, nice personality, nice personality again) and she seemed willing to give me her number (Which I gladly exchanged) and she also said that she'd like to hang out with me one day. (I later told her that I may have to drag a buddy along because of my parents XD) BTW, I'm in grade 10 and she's in grade 9 (though I'm only like 5 months or so older than her, I'm op 10 youngest in grade 10) and she is a LOT more social and friendly than I am (I'm not too open to new things and I'm a really shy guy) Also, we have different lunch periods and classes so we only see each other in drama club. To further complicate problems, my parents rarely let me go out with my friends but they allow them to come over. Do you think that she knows that I like her? Also, if this means anything, today during a brief MSN conversation the first thing that she asked me was why I didn't say hi to her at drama club. Also, my parents won't let me date girls so by the time that I may be dating her/starting to date her I may disguise her by telling my parents that she's just a new friend from school. (they're pretty gullible about the friends thing, but my mom is strict about dating) She also says that we should talk more often. Thanks
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Caelie Caelie | 4 days ago
Go for it. She seems to like you. Oh and try to talk to her more in drama. Just think about things to say and on from there. Oh and yeah I know about the whole shy thing, because yup im pretty shy too. But just act yourself, go with the flow. It sometimes works if you have another friend near you, just in case you need help. The age thing, I dont see it as a problem. And I would go with the whole friend thing if you wanted to invite her over. Say you too are together on a project, or testing and have to study..... Anyway, good luck! :)
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Caelie Originally Answered: Is he interested in me?
yeah he is. But he's trying to not make it seem obvious. Just go along with the guy. I think very soon now, he's gonna start saying he likes you. He trying to be gradual. Obviously, he thinks aerything is going nice, so that's why he's getting braver.

Alma Alma
She seems pretty interested in at least being your friend. But the "not saying hi" thing seems like she was playing around with you, trying to get you to talk to her in person more. Being comfortable in person with the person you like is incredibly important considering when you go out on dates (hopefully) you are face to face. If you are nervous about your parents being strict, I would either tell them once you get to the point where you two are going to be going out and make your case, OR to tell the girl that your parents are a strict which is why you would be saying that she is just a friend if she came over. Good luck to you.
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Uzziel Uzziel
I think the fact that your parents won't allow you to date is ridiculous. In my opinion you should make an effort to talk to her and from what you've said she definately seems to be interested, it doesn't get more obvious than her asking you out and noticing you didn't talk to her. NEVER ignore a girl, she'll be upset or angry. Just tell your parents that you really like this girl and she likes you and that it was HER who invited YOU out on a date. If they refuse then ask them if they want you to turn out gay or something, make them feel as guilty as possible for it because they are being out of order to you! Good luck
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Rolly Rolly
a)tell your parents there f0cking crazy! b) sounds like the girl likes u since shes like hey u didnt say hi! playa playaaaa c) hang out with her sometime and try to further things. but if you do know she likes u and u guys wanna chill u gotta tell her about ur psycho parents. dude my parents let me date in gr 7. not saying EVERYONE SHOULD but ur ready when ur ready. not ur parents. whats u guys dating affect them?they shouldnt decide whats best for you when it comes to everything. YOU DECIDE. like your in highschool wtf? seriously baffled about ur parents. and ur a dude! the fathers daughters are who u gotta worry about.
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Rolly Originally Answered: How can I tell if he's interested?
* If he wants to talk to you all the time, * If you turn around and you catch him looking at you, * If he starts acting nicer when you're around him, * If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do, * If he treats you differently than others, * If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess * If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh, * If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting, * If he seems to always want to hang out with you, * If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back), * If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles, * If he tries to make you laugh, * If he tries to copy you, * If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you, * If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him, * If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework? * If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there), * If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this may be considered a form of stalking) * If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you * If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party, * If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you) * If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing, * If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends, * If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around, * If he asks you to dance with him at the dance. Note: He may be trying to be nice because he thinks you like him. But if you are at a middle school dance, he's probably too vain and self centered of a fraidy cat, so he probably * If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him * If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you, * If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him! * If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you. * If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies. * If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the morning). * If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you, * If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time! * If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps/touches you, if he moves your chair or pulls your hair etc. * If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend does, he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!

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