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I am thinking of asking my brother to not to come out, am I wrong?

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July 18, 2019 / By Paden
Question: I am getting married in 3 months, and my baby brother is going to give a toast after the wedding in the reception hall, and he wanted to give me rehearsal of his speech to me alone, part of the speech he admitted to me he was gay. We grew up close, and I sort of always knew ya know? I'm the only one in the family who knows so far, and he plans on telling the family through his toast. Just how did to me Now I understand a person coming out is important, and should be done by the person. I can't but help but feel once he does it at my wedding everyone will focus there attention on that and only remember that. It was such a beautiful toast though, I cannot describe it, it made me cried. And I want to support him anyway I can. : ( I haven't told my fiance my brother plan, but I'm seriously thinking maybe asking him to post pone it to say the reherasal dinner? I feel awful, guilty and terribly selfish about this. I'm worried my brother won't be happy on my wedding day
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Leyton Leyton | 10 days ago
Absolutely he should NOT mention his own sexual orientation at your wedding speech, how selfish of him. He is obviously dying to tell his family, he can do that once you are off on your honeymoon.
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Leyton Originally Answered: Is there anything wrong with me trying to help a set of brother "reconcile"?
Why the f*ck are you even asking for advice on this? You're going to do whatever the hell you want, regardless of who you hurt in the process, because no matter what anyone else tells you, you're one of those goddamned people who can't leave well enough alone. You have to satisfy your own curiosity and desire, and everyone else's feelings be damned. It's none of your damn business. Stop meddling in things that don't concern you. Oh, look, you've convinced yourself that meddling makes you a good person. How cute.
Leyton Originally Answered: Is there anything wrong with me trying to help a set of brother "reconcile"?
sounds to me like George and Rachael cheated with each other on Lance. best you stay out of this. i know you want to reconcile them, but in this case you place yourself in the middle of a two brother fight. no place you want to be. if they want to reconcile, they will. and if not, so be it. you stay out of the middle.

Jareb Jareb
Don`t make him do it at the rehearsal , Fauntleroy !! Make it a big splash .....and have him do it while you and your "soon-to-be-ex-wife" are exchanging marriage vows !! She should know she`s marrying into a family of perverts while there`s still a chance for her to get out !! Get your brother to stop the nuptials just before your "intended" says "I do" ........... LOL ...... LOL ........ LOL ...... .. I`d give a month`s wages to be a fly on the wall when THAT happens !!!! BTW , you little pervert ......... how many time are you going to post this exact same question ???? It`s already the 12th time ......... if anyone cares to check your profile !!
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Fred Fred
Advise him to keep in mind that this is your day and not his way to cushion his admitting to liking ding a ling. Besides, he has a SEXUAL problem and this should not be looked at as if it is a legitamit culture.....That's like saying "mom, dad, sis, I am puertorican and cuban". So, he should not be selfish, as most DIVERSE people tend to be.
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Fred Originally Answered: My brother.?
Unfortunately, your mom is not parenting him and he has not been given guidelines and boundaries like you were given. For some reason your mother has backed down from her responsibilities and challenges. Where is your father in this situation? Has he not remained involved in your lives? This is not your problem to solve, although I do understand how it affects you. Set the boundaries with your brother regarding your puppy and perhaps try talking to your mom and dad about your brother's behaviors and your concerns. But remain true to yourself. Keep up your grades and look to your future. Good luck and I hope it works out.

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